NOT Dear Abby
Although this is an advice blog, it is not meant as a platform for a snotty know-it-all to dole out advice willy-nilly with a humoristic undercurrent. Although often snotty, I don’t pretend to know it all.
Instead, I intend this to be a collection of blog-entries around specific subjects to be used as resources for anyone who is interested in that specific subject. As I learn of new useful information on a subject, I will update that blog-entry.
I write this blog in English to make it accessible for an as big an audience as possible. Also, being gay, and intending to talk with/to gay men, all subjects will be viewed in an all-male homosexual setting. If you are straight, Hetero-flex, bi-curious, pansexual, transgender, female, several of the above or anything not male homosexual and are offended by this; this blog contains secret gay stuff that you have no right to read; as decreed by the International High Gay Counsel.
In no way do I pretend that all my thoughts are original and not influenced by a multitude of websites, books and people whom probably deserve credit and should be mentioned. If I could only remember who said what first, I would.
For most subjects I might be as much a novice to as the next guy; so I will try to approach each subject as exactly that, a novice. With thousands of kinks out there, practicing all of them is neither possible or enjoyable. So I may point out the obvious or try to figure out the attraction of a kink, give tips and tricks as I have them and include links to webpages that deal with that subject.
If you have comments on a blog entry, please post anything constructive about things I may have gotten wrong, you (dis)agrees with, is missing or is useful. As I update the entry, those comments will incorporated and removed.
If you have suggestions for new subjects, please post suggestions to this entry. That way I know what people are looking for. Subjects will vary from the purely focused on a specific activity to a more social or psychological one. Topics that come to mind right now are: wax-play, kink-terminology, flogging, etiquette in BDSM, cleaning-out, BDSM myths & legends,…
Tips & tricks:
none so far, i'll think of something eventually.