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This post is about tit torture (TT) . For me, this is the only time gays  can say tit. Men don't have tits, they have a chest and nipples (nips). So nipple torture would be more accurate but is a lesser-known term. 

There are 2 types of subs regarding TT. The kind that have their nips hardwired to their cock and the ones that don't. (I'm hardwired, which is a good thing since my Master is very into this.) On the other hand, the types of nips out there can vary wildly. From dimes with a grain of sand on them, to juicy plump ones, to really weird shapes. But TT tends to harden and enlarge all nips.

the basics:

Nips should be clean. They're not that big and hard to grasp as it is. No need to play in hard-mode by adding lubricants and if (no, make than when) the skin breaks you don't want too many bacteria there.

The most often used toy for nipples is of course the Dom's fingers. Those can squeeze, twist and pull. Often nails are used as well for sharper pain. However, it's important where you do it. The tip of the nipple is a lot more sensitive than the base, so the same force a millimeter further out, can have a quite different effect on the sub. I avoid playing through a T-shirt since the fabric of the shirt against the nipple with actually rub it bloody.

As in all play, build-up is important. A Dom shouldn't try to tear the nips off from the get-go, put on the crusher-clamp or dig in with his nails without some prep work. You can roll the nip between thumb and index finger, pull the nips to any direction you want, squeeze them at the base or work on the tip,   lightly pinch the tip with just the nails, twist them around, etc, ect.  All the time slowly increasing pressure but the force used with nails should be a lot less that the force used with squeezing or pulling. Once the endorphins kick in, there may be no limit to what the sub can take. I remember a time when my Master really tried his damnest to destroy my nips at the end of a long perfectly built up session and I just smiled beatifically . That time, Master actually had bruises on HIS fingers from trying. (hehehe)

Pulling on the nips, or tugging the chain on a pair of nipple clamps, is a great way to guide the sub into the position you want. The basic clamp is of course the clothespin, but nipple clamps come in many varieties, often with a connecting chain or with a weight attached to it. Many Doms use clamps as a warm-up so the sub's nips are more responsive, but all clamps work by compressing the nipple. A good way to test a clamp is either to try it on (duh!), or putting it on the skin between thumb and index finger to gauge strength. 

I find the ones with rubber surfaces the best because they avoid slipping. It's an experience in itself to feel a clamp slowly sliding further and further to the tip before it falls off completely. The iconic clover-clamps are a bit too harsh for me, both because of the strength of the spring and the smallness of the surface. I actually prefer the small mushroom shaped ones. There are also clamps with teeth (alligator clamps) or with other mechanisms to apply pressure than via a spring. I do find that the non-spring ones either put on too much pressure too fast or fall off. Especially when it slips just a bit and all pressure disappears. 

There are nipple-pumps as well. (Gays will pump anything!) These create a vacuum to engorge the nipple with blood for a bigger size and more sensation. It's another way to warm up the sub's nips.

The kind way to remove a clamp is to open it very slowly and not disturb the nipple while the blood flows back into it, or tonguing the nipple while you slowly open the clamp. The harshest way is to yank the chain and, ignoring the screams, pushing the nipple into the chest . Ehhh, don't yank or even pull hard when the clamp has teeth. 

the intermediate:

Once the nips are warmed up, or sufficiently abused, you can use a whole range of other things on them. Think candle wax, tiger balm, violet wand, cigar, nailbrush, pinwheel, feathers or even needles. A favorite is of course the ice-cold beer bottle; both used as a torture by the Dom or as a way to dull the pain by the sub.

Piercing the nipple can change the way you experience TT. Well, having a metal thingy there will change it anyway. Some don't like it when the clamp grips the piercing through the flesh ( small area of pressure), so if you like clamps, think twice if piercings are the way to go for you. But in rare cases , the act of piercing can make you hard-wired or stop you being hardwired. I've seen both happen. A VERY important detail is to tell the piercer that you want to do nipple-play so he needs to put it farther back into the nipple. My piercer didn't and as a consequence, it started growing out. Making my nip into a tube until I took it out.  

And this brings me onto "players-nips". If you do TT often of use clamps a lot they can change shape if youíre not careful. Some people get ball shaped nips and others get ribbon shaped nips. The former is build up scar tissue, the latter is mostly due to using clamps for way too long and too often with weights. If you feel your nipple becoming too big or hard, it's best to leave them alone for a while. 

So what do you do if you find that hot Dom but his nipple play is just too rough for you? Good News! You can train your nips. If you wear nipple clamps for 10-15 minutes a day for a week they will toughen up (calluses) so the stud can go to town on them. However, clamps really shouldnít be worn longer than 15 minutes because they prohibit blood flow into the nips, ultimately resulting in nerve damage. When training, don't put the clamps in the same position over and over. If you always wear them top-down, you'll be amazed how UNtrained they are when it comes to left-right pressure. It also may prevent flattening your nips.

After playing, take care of your nipples that gave your Dom and you so much pleasure. I always wash with soap afterwards ( just think about where the Dom's hand has also been) and put on some Vaseline to speed the healing. If the skin is broken of rubbed raw (which is frequently the case for me), I tape them over the next day. This removes the sensation of sandpaper-like cloth rubbing against them and gives scabs the change to form instead of being constantly rubbed away. After a few days I remove the tape ( and the scabs stick to the tape) and use Vaseline until healed. Your nipple may look like a leopard if you shed some old skin with the tape but don't freak out, color will return again.

tips & tricks:

I found that pulling both nips to their respective armpit, creates a heat sensation in the solar plexus region. Weird.

Personally, I like a hit of poppers when we get to the excruciating part. It tends to stretch the limits of what I can take. 

With 2 subs, you can have a tug of war with the nipple-clamp chains. Either by linking the chains or by each sub wearing only one clamp of the pair.

A nipple clamp is a great way to easily chain a sub to a spot. Promise, he won't budge if the clamps have teeth. But remember, 15 min max.

Cheap toys are : 2 parallel chopsticks or toothpicks with rubber bands twisted on either side( the closer you slide the bands to the nipple between the 2 sticks, the stronger it is), a snake-bite kit as a nipple pump or basically anything that can function as a suction cup or can pinch.

If you're not into the sand-paper rub from leather after playing and don't want to go bare chested, use a (dark pink) hanky to drape across the nips under the shirt. A simple solution if you're prepared for it.

A favorite end-game of mine as a top, is to tell the hard-wired sub that he's allowed to cum but I'll keep torturing his nips harder and harder until he does. No mercy. It's very fun to see the frantic wanking with the spasmodic raising of the hand halfway up to the nips, almost trying to swat my hands away, before darting down again to continue trying to cum. And at the first squirt, of course I give one last nail-splitting crush goodbye. Subs appreciate that. ( at least, they always grin afterwards)

 

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